Imagine walking up to a flame and placing your hand directly into it and then getting mad at the flame for burning you. Makes no sense whatsoever, huh? I have done this exact thing for longer than I care to state. I allowed the actions, or rather the lack of action, of someone to make … Continue reading Learning to Live in the Grey…
Category: communication
Kiss Me…
If you have never heard the song by Ed Sheeran, Kiss Me, then definitely listen to it. I loved the song from the very first time I heard it. There is just such a sweet vulnerability to the song. One day it was no longer just a song that I loved but that became a … Continue reading Kiss Me…
Predicting the Future…
Recently someone (my boss during our training), brought to my attention that we are always trying to predict the future. Isn't it funny that internal dialog that never hushes? That part of us that so easily distorts another's words or actions. It turns an innocent statement into an attack. It makes a compliment sound like … Continue reading Predicting the Future…
Mickey Mouse Bullshit…
Yep, I said bullshit. I call bullshit on all that say the words "I love you", but do not back it up with actions! There is nothing faulty about being broken. But if a person isn't actively working on their brokenness and are just wallowing in self pity, then stop the bullshit! If this is … Continue reading Mickey Mouse Bullshit…
Just Shae It 